I Hated My 401(k)
I didn’t start out caring about retirement. I hated contributing to a 401(k).
When my employer offered one in my early twenties, I barely understood what it was. It felt like a bill that wasn’t paying for anything and I was more concerned about having gym shoes that matched my leggings than I was about “future me.”
When Mom told me, “At least contribute up to the match, that’s free money.” I did. By that point, I had learned that she was smarter than me. So I checked the box. I could now say “Yep, I have a 401(k)” and move on with my life. Meanwhile, resenting the fact that I didn’t have the money to spend (honestly, besides shoes, I have no idea what was so important).
It would take a few more years, well into my late twenties, before I became even a little curious about money and retirement.
A Quick Fact
A 401(k) is a retirement account with tax benefits.
If your employer offers one, they’ll often match part of what you put in. That match? Free money. (Thanks, Mom.)
My Recommendation
Use it.
The best time to start was yesterday.
The second best time is today.
And if comparing ourselves to others is the thief of joy, maybe comparing ourselves to our past selves can bring a little peace.
I’ve come a long way since those first clueless steps and remembering that helps quiet some of the anxiety about what’s next.
Thanks for being here. We’re figuring this out together.
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See you soon,
Ellen